Saturday, March 21, 2015
Thursday, March 19, 2015
You see the first thing we love is a scene..
For love at first sight requires the very sign of its suddenness; and of all things, it is the scene which seems to be seen best for the first time: a curtain parts and what had not yet ever been seen is devoured by the eyes: the scene consecrates the object I am going to love. The context is the constellation of elements, harmoniously arranged that encompass the experience of the amorous subject...
Love at first sight is always spoken in the past tense. The scene is perfectly adapted to this temporal phenomenon: distinct, abrupt, framed, it is already a memory (the nature of a photograph is not to represent but to memorialize)... this scene has all the magnificence of an accident: I cannot get over having had this good fortune: to meet what matches my desire.
The gesture of the amorous embrace seems to fulfill, for a time, the subject's dream of total union with the loved being: The longing for consummation with the other... In this moment, everything is suspended: time, law, prohibition: nothing is exhausted, nothing is wanted: all desires are abolished, for they seem definitively fulfilled... A moment of affirmation; for a certain time, though a finite one, a deranged interval, something has been successful: I have been fulfilled (all my desires abolished by the plenitude of their satisfaction).”
― Roland Barthes
Sunday, March 15, 2015
Choose..!
You know how they say : If you love two people at the same time, choose the second. Because if you really loved the first one, you wouldn't have fallen for the second. I think that with one kiss you will know who to choose, your heart will tell you. And sometimes the first one is the good choice and the second just an illusion... and sometimes the other way around.. Now let your heart decide and your lips.. They never wrong.
Tuesday, March 10, 2015
Love? I need a lot of love.
Of course you do. Everyone does. It's funny that we never say it. It's OK to scream, 'I'm starving' in public if you are hungry; it's OK to make a fuss and say, 'I'm so sleepy', if you are tired; but somehow we cannot say, 'I need some more love.' Why can't we say it? It's just as basic a need.
C.B.
Monday, March 9, 2015
Friday, March 6, 2015
Wednesday, March 4, 2015
Monday, March 2, 2015
Someone once asked me what it felt like to love you..
They may as well have asked me to describe the taste of water.
So, in turn, I asked them to imagine living in absence of it.
You can get by without it for about a day or so.
You may even survive without it for a week.
But eventually, the body will begin to wither away.
And so, the idea of living without water is the equivalent of not loving you - impossible.
It wasn’t an awe striking moment; I didn’t lose my breath or stumble over my words...
It was gradual, like going to sleep. It happens slowly, at first, you’re restless, and you think it will never happen, and then the spell of seductive sleep falls upon you. And you’re in that wonderful stage of ease and peacefulness where you’re still awake but know your being slowly consumed by this wonderful sweet sensation. Then it devours you, and you forget everything else around you, and you just focus on what is going on in the here and now. And there is never one moment during this-this dream that you know with your entire mind that it’s true. Your body knows, your heart knows but not your mind. Your mind is the only thing unaware of this action, it’s helpless, and so it relies on every other part of the body to make the right decisions. The sad part? The mind doesn’t even know it’s helpless, but it doesn’t matter, because in those moments when you’re under that spell, the brain couldn’t be happier.
-Aliza Bell
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